It begins with you
Explore how your fears, beliefs and patterns influence the depth of work you can hold.
Marie Quigley’s First Book
Essential lessons in coaching with courage, compassion and connection
A deeply human invitation for coaches to move beyond technique and into a braver, more relational and more authentic way of being.
Drawing on almost three decades of coaching, mentoring, supervision and personal exploration, Marie shares the lessons that transformed her own coaching practice.
This is a book about presence, honesty, intuition, creativity and the courage to care deeply while saying what needs to be said.
Fierce love is a challenging, heart-centred presence held with technical mastery.
It is the willingness to care deeply, speak truth when it matters, remain present through discomfort, and trust that courage and compassion belong together.
About the Book
Coaching models, competencies and tools matter. But they are the bridge, not the destination.
Fierce Love explores what becomes possible when the coach’s presence becomes the instrument and when skill is joined by humanity, honesty, intuition, creativity and courage.
Marie invites coaches to examine who they are being in the coaching relationship. Are you bringing your whole self into the work, or hiding behind technique? Are you willing to do the inner work you ask of the people you coach?
Through personal stories, coaching cases, reflective questions and 15 practical lessons, the book supports you to deepen your presence, strengthen your courage and create partnerships in which meaningful transformation can happen.
Fifteen Lessons
Every lesson combines personal story, professional insight, a coaching case and questions for reflection.
Explore how your fears, beliefs and patterns influence the depth of work you can hold.
Honour developmental readiness, choice and the explorer’s capacity for meaningful stretch.
Deepen stillness, empathy, embodied awareness and full attention.
Listen beyond questions and pay attention to the echoes within the conversation.
Meet your shadows, protective strategies, inner allies and wisest self.
Work with emotion, intuition and the body while remaining grounded and ethical.
Bring creativity, play, movement, metaphor and new perspectives into the work.
Develop the trust and courage required to name what matters.
Recognise the wider systems and relationships influenced by every coaching partnership.
Replace performance with presence and build relationships grounded in authenticity.
Create working agreements that make honesty, challenge and shared responsibility possible.
Name boundaries with clarity, compassion and respect for the relationship.
Approach completion and separation with the same care given to beginnings.
Practise the lessons beyond the coaching room and within ordinary relationships.
Commit to reflection, supervision, self-care and continual development.
“A wealth of practical lessons, profound insights and hard-won wisdom.”Steve Mitten CPCC, Retired MCC, Past President ICF
A Note from Marie
For many years, coaches have asked me how I can be deeply caring and provocative at the same time.
That question sent me back through decades of reflective journals, coaching experiences, successes, failures and lessons.
I wrote this book for coaches who know their tools and models, whose clients are achieving results, and who still sense that something more is possible.
It is for those who want more depth and breadth in their coaching and who are ready to reconnect with their heart, gut and spine.
This is not one framework or one correct way to coach. It is an invitation to discover your own authentic and courageous way of supporting growth.
My hope is that these lessons support you to move from transaction to transformation, from safe to brave, and from fear to fierce love.
Advance Praise
“Marie writes with honesty, courage and generosity. This book invites coaches to step beyond technique.”Sue Knight, NLP Master Trainer, Coach and Author of NLP at Work
“Her 15 lessons invite you to find your own path into fiercely loving work.”Clare Norman MCC, Coach Supervisor, Mentor Coach and Author
“A book that speaks to the soul of our profession.”Mel Leow MCC, Co-Founder, Catalyst Coach
“A lovely combination of story, theory and encouragement.”Claire Pedrick MCC, Author of Simplifying Coaching
“A practical and useful book that any coach will benefit from.”Andy Robbins, Leadership Coach and Former Intel General Manager
“Fierce, loving and profoundly human. A must-read for all coaches.”Jeanine Bailey MCC ICF, Co-Founder of Empower World
“Coaching and humanity at the highest level.”Dave Stitt MCC
“This book offers both inspiration and permission: to show up more fully, coach with courage, and trust that love can transform our work.”Haesun Chung PCC, KPC, PhD
“A courageous provocation to be our whole selves, recognising the mutual learning that presents itself when we work with “fierce love.”Michelle Lucas, Accredited Master Executive Coach, Accredited Master Coach Supervisor and Routledge Author
“This book is fundamentally important to the future of coaching. Marie Quigley’s searing honesty, deep integrity and fierce love for the beingness of a coach shine as beacons of light, drawing us into the new, expanded reality of fully being a coach.”Trudy Arthurs, PCC, MAC, PUCA, ICF
“An essential read for new and experienced coaches, it has the lovely combination of being greatly informative and emotionally connecting. This book is one to keep by your side for reference when at work.”Karen Ledger, Executive therapeutic coach, executive coach, therapist,supervisor, author
“This book is without parallel. Marie Quigley does not offer yet another textbook on coaching, but a radical account of a life well lived, along with the profound learning and self-reflection that transformed her coaching. You will be moved, challenged, and inspired.”
Roger Fielding, MCC
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The Journey Begins
Fierce, courageous and grounded human love is not the end of the journey. It is where the journey begins.
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